Teacher: Rusty Kennedy Series: Philippians |
Rusty's Notes | |
- Unity is necessary for the church (people don’t vote on the facts… they vote on their friends or who they like)
- Unity is gained slowly and lost quickly
- Division: Pride, sin (sexual, money, jealousy, bitterness), heresy (false teaching), legalism (judges others, religious), primary and secondary issues & distrust.
PRACTICAL COUNSEL
PHILIPPIANS 4
2 I urge Euodia and I urge Syntyche to agree in the Lord. 3 Yes, I also ask you, true partner (deacon or elder), to help these women who have contended for the gospel at my side (they were involved in ministry, what role?), along with Clement and the rest of my coworkers whose names are in the book of life.
- They are believers… probably mature believers.
- Conflict can start at leadership.
- The issue doesn’t matter because it is not mentioned.
- Paul is saying these two women need a mediator… this is what Jesus did. (1 Timothy 2:5 - For there is one God and one mediator between God and mankind, the man Christ Jesus,[1])
- Two sides have to agree on two things:
- 1) we will meet &
- 2) we will do what the mediator tells us… based on trust.
- Sometimes this is needed in a marriage… sometimes in a divorce with kids.
- Anxiety… dealing with issues
- Right now, nearly 40 million adults (18 and older) (19.1% of the population) are living with a serious anxiety disorder.
- According to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, this disorder is highly treatable, but only around 37 percent of those affected actually receive treatment.
- “Anxiety disorders cost the US more than $42 billion a year, almost one third of the $148 billion total mental health bill for the US.”
- THE POINT: Life causes anxiety
- What causes anxiety? (non clinical definition) – Anticipating the future, in the worst possible scenario… and freaking out about it.
- 1) It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy and you force it to happen
- 2) You wear yourself out to the point of anxiety.
- Causes of anxiety: Biological factors, such as genes or brain chemistry
- Life experiences, such as trauma or abuse
- Family history of mental health problems
- Screen time (24 hour lifestyle, facebook, e-mail, cell phones),
- On average, the generational cohort born in and after 1996, dubbed "Gen Z," watches of 7.2 hours of video on their screens per day.
- With content constantly available, many Gen Zers find themselves "doomscrolling" on TikTok and Instagram.
- Smartphones and social media have become ubiquitous, and algorithms condition young people to stay glued to their phones.
- Strategically curated feeds coupled with doomscrolling can be detrimental to mental health, not to mention a major time sucker.
- Traffic (license numbers should be cell phone numbers), fractured family systems (holidays), lonely, isolated, financial pains, works 60-80 hours a week, success (have to perform even more), strained personal relationships (family, co-worker, roommate)
- How do you know you are stressed? Unusual mood swings, anger, depressed, exhausted, fragmentation, disassociation or withdrawing, body changes (tongue), paranoia & suspicion, weight gain, panic, panic attics, insomnia (mattresses with instructions), too frequent use of substances: alcohol, drugs, diet coke, caffeine (Starbucks), comfort foods, general irritability, reckless driving, change in sexual desire, health related issues, irritated bowel syndrome, ulcers, victim mentality, shopping sprees and unnecessary spending (what do I need?)
- Time magazine says you need: behavioral therapy, cognitive therapy, antidepressants, minor tranquilizers, exercise, eat properly and alternative procedures such as yoga, aromatherapy & acupuncture.
- Does God have anything to say about anxiety?
- Only 21% of men say they received emotional support from a friend within the past week, compared to 41% of women, according to a 2021 survey by the Survey Center on American Life.
- Similarly, just 25% of men say they've said "I love you" to a friend recently, as opposed to 49% of women.
- What if I have a good reason… Paul was in prison and possibly to be put to death… he gets it)
- What is worry? The Greek word translated “anxious” (careful) in Philippians 4:6 means “to be pulled in different directions.”
- Our hopes pull us in one direction; our fears pull us the opposite direction; and we are pulled apart!
- The Old English root from which we get our word “worry” means “to strangle.”
- If you have ever really worried, you know how it does strangle a person! [2]
8 Finally brothers and sisters, whatever is true,
- Dr. Walter Cavert reported a survey on worry that indicated that only 8 percent of the things people worried about were legitimate matters of concern!
- The other 92 percent were either imaginary, never happened, or involved matters over which the people had no control anyway.[3]
- Worthy of respect and right.
- You come to Church this morning and you hear encouragement from the Word of God.
- Tonight, you end your day watching the Grammy’s, Tulsa King, 1923 and Mayor Kingstown and what are you going to be dwelling on when you go to bed.
- You’re going to be dreaming about Taylor Swift, Lizzo and Beyonce shooting each other in long dresses over a bag of weed and then end up getting killed in prison.
- Or you can dwell on moral excellence and have the potential to sleep peacefully.
- Either we yield heart and mind to the Spirit of God and practice right praying, thinking, and living;
- or we yield to the flesh and find ourselves torn apart by worry.[4]
- The result is that the “peace of God” guards the heart and the mind.
- We experience “peace with God” (Rom. 5:1); and the “peace of God” takes us a step farther into His blessings.
- This does not mean the absence of trials on the outside, but it does mean a quiet confidence within, regardless of circumstances, people, or things.[6]
What do you do?
It is a lifestyle issue… It is a mindset.
- Michelle does the iPod.
- Keith… Connie reads the Bible to him.
Paul’s list of encouragement to the church
1) Anchor your joy in Jesus… not circumstances. (Reasons to complain or reasons to rejoice; rejoicing cultivates a heart of hope)
2) Respond gently/reasonably… I DEMAND!!! FREAKING OUT… chill out
3) Jesus is always with you… He never leaves you… when you are lonely
4) Prayer allows you to be conversational with your Savior. Who do you call?
5) Choose to be anxious about nothing… sometimes it is a difficult battle.
6) Meditate… mentally… stay focused on Jesus. Think… dwell… in order to respond.
7) Live according to the Truth you know rather than your anxiety
8) Plug into the church… we do this as a community… walk with each other.
9) Accept the peace of God… it is a gift from God that you already have.
Paul writes this to the church because he loves them… and I tell you these things because I love you.
- I’ve responded both ways… one way I typically regret… the other way I have learned to rest.
- I’ve learned to say “I love you” more.
[1] Christian Standard Bible (1 Ti 2:5–6). (2020). Holman Bible Publishers.
[2] Wiersbe, W. W. (1996). The Bible exposition commentary (Vol. 2, p. 94). Victor Books.
[3] Wiersbe, W. W. (1996). The Bible exposition commentary (Vol. 2, p. 95). Victor Books.
[4] Wiersbe, W. W. (1996). The Bible exposition commentary (Vol. 2, p. 96). Victor Books.
[5] Christian Standard Bible (Php 4:2–9). (2020). Holman Bible Publishers.
[6] Wiersbe, W. W. (1996). The Bible exposition commentary (Vol. 2, p. 95). Victor Books.